It was sorely tempting to cancel a coffee date with my sister, but I gave myself a talking to. I
So we met for an hour over coffee at a local garden centre, and it was good to see her - she's looking well despite her health problems, and we had a bit of a catch up. We're not naturally on the same wavelength, but that's another thing. I need to just accept that people are different, we can and do still love them.
|Trays and trays of seedlings in the polytunnel|
|The salad mix which has kept us going over late winter is still going strong, but boy does it have a kick!|
Meanwhile, a particularly cocky farmer's son from the north of our beloved county has been messing me about for days about buying our sheep. He's faffed and messed and changed his mind that many times, on Tuesday Neil had actually offered them to him for rock bottom price but he decided to delay again.
This morning he had the nerve to message me again (tip: for any wannabe negotiators. If you constantly avoid having an actual phone conversation, and do all your haggling via a facebook message, we do know that you are twelve.) to say " Have you had any other interest?"
I saw red, and told him I'd decided to advertise them elsewhere. 'OK' he messaged back. "I'll bring you *rock bottom price minus £100* on Sunday."
As you can imagine my answer was: No you won't.
Please, however big you think your britches are:
- Be a man of your word. Let your yes be yes, and your no be no
- Negotiate by all means, but play fair. Don't try to screw people.
- Don't play silly beggar games with grown ups
- Be nice to people on the way up. You may bump into them again on the way down.